Happy almost New Year and why I’m not setting any goals this year

This post will be a little different from my others so grab a cup of coffee or tea and sit down for the reading.

In case you’ve wondered why I ended blogmas a few days before the date it was supposed to end I am here to tell you that I somehow hot overwhelmed. I had some of my posts already planned and written but the last ones weren’t prepared. So between having to make cakes for Christmas dinner, studying for uni and cleaning my house, blogging suddenly fell off of my priorities list.

In case the same thing happened to you with blogmas or with whatever other thing, it’s ok to give up one thing just to feel sane at the end of the day. I felt like blogging was hard for a lot of people this year especially when it came to collaborations. I sometimes felt like I had nothing to say due to the fact that I basically stayed in my house most of the days. I am an introvert and even for myself it was enough haha.

In terms of plans for the New Year, I have none. You know that picture that says ” Nobody claim 2021 as your year, ok? We’re all going to walk in realll slow. Be quiet. Be good. Don’t. Touch. Anything.” ? Well this is exact what I plan to do.

Every year I make a list of things I want to achieve and every year I say that this will be the one. The one when I will lose weight, I will stop procrastinating, I will start reading more and so on. “This year will be the one” but never in my life have I said that this is the day when I study a lot and then actually do it.

I kept referring to a future that in one way or another wasn’t guaranteed. I kept referring to a future that I didn’t know it existed or that if was good or bad. Instead of living the days and working for my goals, I only wrote them down and never looked at them again until at then end of the year when I realized that in fact, I haven’t worked for my dreams all year.

So for the New Year, I am looking forward to living it day by day. Setting small, weekly or monthly achievable goals. Working for them, working for me.