A lot of things can change if you are in a long time relationship during the years but one should always stay the same – the love for each other. We all entered this new year making resolutions, from wanting to learn new thing to having the time of your life in a forgotten country we may or may not forgot to include some resolutions for our current relationship or for a new one.
CHANGES TO MAKE IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP
As I am in a relationship for almost 5 years I decided to step up the game and make some small changes that can make the sparkle between us shine even brighter.
One thing I want to do more this is to go on more dates. Sadly we stopped doing this after a while even though I really enjoyed them a lot. You don’t have to go every day or every week. The best thing you can do is to talk to your partner about it pick 2 dates in a month and make them your “Date Night”. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on it, just make sure you are both doing something you enjoy.
Another thing I really want to implement in our couples life is to take mini trips more often. I know travelling can sometimes be expensive but your don’t have to go somewhere fancy and for a long period of time. You can pack your bags on a Friday and be back by Sunday with a lot of memories and great time spent together.
Movie night is another thing I want to do for the days we feel like staying home. We barely get to see a whole movie together so that could be a great way to enjoy more time in your lover arms.
CHANGES TO MAKE IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR SOMEONE
One of the best thing you can do if you are single and searching for someone to be with is to go online. There are a lot of free dating websites or apps out there and as I like to say “there is someone for everyone of us out there”. I have a lot of friends who downloaded a dating app or made an account on their website and after a while they found someone. Yes, there might be a lot of ups and downs when it comes to finding someone online but if you don’t try you will never succeed.
If you are from UK and you only want to find someone in your area Match Me Happy might be exactly the site you need. Just give them some informations and be open about any possibilities that may occur.
Another thing that you can do is to go out more with your friends. Pick places like a coffee shop that is always full of new people, a great big bookstore or even a concert. Tell them to bring their friends too and maybe you will be lucky enough to find someone that is in the same circle.
SO WHAT IF YOU WANT TO BE WITHOUT A PARTNER ?
If you decided that you want to spend time alone for another couple of weeks or months that is perfectly fine. You can always take that time to learn something new, focus on work or on making some changes around you. Everything is supposed to happen at a certain time so don’t stress over it. Live in the present! You don’t have to be in a relationship to enjoy yourself. Take yourself out on dates, travel and go to the cinema as in the end we create our own happiness.
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Wonderful post. Having date nights is so amazing. My boyfriend and I love to eat do we go out for a treat every now and then. It doesn’t need to be whole fancy dinner thing, maybe just a cake or a burger or pizza at some new place, little walk after and lots of talking.